A woman takes great pains to carry out her relationship.
Her brain, heart and soul has accepted so hard to become one's woman that
she doesn't want to belong to another man.
She doesn't pick a quarrel like a man
for the lack of salt in the soup.
On the contrary, she says "We have to talk".
And men get irritated of this sentence most.
Those conversations are delayed...
to the end of the match, the dinner or a lot of unnecessary things.
Women are stubborn,
they own their loves as they hang on to life.
That's why they want to talk and tell their problems.
They try until they convince the man.
And he gives up at last.
The woman sees a light and shares all her troubles.
But which answer she gets generally?
"Don't talk nonsense!"
He finds all those very nonsense
and never fastens on them.
So a problem is passed over again without satisfaction.
And the man can't know that
it will return to himself one day like a shot.
If a woman is complaining -or "nagging" according to men's expressions-
the man has to know that the woman is still hopeful of that relationship.
She still wants to carry it out, live together and be happy by solving the problems.
And what is more to the point, she still loves the man.
A woman goes away in silence!
This is the most important detail.
The case which men can never understand is so easy.
The woman talking and quarrelling
trails into silence.
When she gives up hope of that relationship,
her love receives wound.
She packs the suitcases in her heart,
she buys the tickets in her mind.
Even if her body still stands there physically,
she has already gone off the relationship.
If the woman has really gone,
her departure has been very silent.
She has gone without making anybody feel it,
without slamming the door.
As long as the door is opened by the woman
every evening when he came home,
the man doesn't understand but
the woman goes away in silence.
The woman who cooks in the kitchen,
who watches the TV aside of him,
who tries to make love in bed by putting away her soul in nights
is not the same woman anymore.
No need to be afraid of a woman's screams and quarrels.
Because her departure is silent and noble.
Original Poem (Writing) KADINLAR SUSARAK GİDER
Written by CEMAL SÜREYA
Translated by Sihirli Yazılar